IS YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE CHEATING?
CATCH YOUR SPOUSE IN THE ACT!
Catch A Cheating Wife / Husband -- Read Why I Made This Web Site
 Is your husband / wife cheating on you? The seventh commandment says "Thou shalt not commit adultery." Nevertheless, this sin has been committed throughout history. Today, though, adultery seems more rampant than ever. While tabloid stories report the affairs of politicians, millionaires, and movie stars, films like "The English Patient," "The Prince of Tides," or "The Bridges of Madison Country" feature and even promote adultery. All these movies have spouses who have cheated on each other. Keep reading and you will find out what to do about an unfaithful lover.
Just how prevalant is adultery? Two of the most reliable studies come to similar conclusions. The Janus Report on Sexual Behavior estimates that "More than one-third of men and one-quarter of women admit having had at least one extramarital sexual experience." A survey by the National Opinion Research Center (University of Chicago) found lower percentages: 25 percent of men had been unfaithful and 17 percent of women. Even when these lower ratios are applied to the current adult population, that means that some 19 million husbands and 12 million wives have had an affair.
IS YOUR SPOUSE BEING FAITHFUL?
SIGNS HE'S BEING UNFAITHFUL
- Works really odd hours
- Fails to produce pay stubs
to prove the hours he's worked
- He's constantly late coming home
- You get alot of hang up calls
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SIGNS SHE'S BEING UNFAITHFUL
- She is more attentive then normal
- You find her dressing better when she goes out with her friends
- She set up seperate e-mail address
- You can never reach her on her cell phone
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 Whatever the actual numbers, the point to be made is that adultery is much more common than we would like to admit. A cheating wife or husband is no laughing matter. Family therapist and psychiatrist Frank Pittman believes "There may be as many acts of infidelity in our society as there are traffic accidents." He further argues that the fact that adultery has become commonplace has altered society's perception of it. He says, "We won't go back to the times when adulterers were put in the stocks and publicly humiliated, or become one of those societies and there are many in which adultery is punishable by death. Society in any case is unable to enforce a rule that the majority of people break, and infidelity is so common it is no longer deviant."
You may want to start with your own personal investigaton. Obviously if you have your suspicions there are several things to look for. The obvious ones are often overlooked by the one in question. Most likely you will start to find things changing about your husband or wife like their appearance. Ask yourself a few questions. Do you notice a change in the way they are dressing? Often times the accused will try and look a bit better than you are used to seeing them. Are they doing things out of the ordinary such as wearing perfume or cologne? Are their overall grooming habits changing? If you find yourself answering " yes" to any of these you have a foundation to start on. A front out assault is no way of finding out for sure if your spouse is being unfaithful. In fact, it will actually hender the process. There are ways of finding out without asking.
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